Y Monday, October 12, 2009
3:10 pm
Remember, kids.Judge not by words, but by actions!
They weren't kidding when they said communication is 3% talking and 97% body language. Seriously? Words mean jackshit as I've found out.
Waiters can tell you to enjoy your meal. But in Singapore, the service here is shit, so they probably sound like they want you to choke on a bone and die.
The guy can tell the girl "I love you.", but it means nothing when she sees another girl in his arms, or runs along and tends to his other things as if she doesn't exist the moment he gets a breather.
You see, it's our first line of offense when we want to lie. Words. We use them to communicate and therefore, if we which to communicate lies, we do it via words firstly. This is why text is even more limited. So now you can't even hear a person's inflections and change in tone. It's just text! How about that?!
Why do you think lil kids can't lie for shit? They've only mastered the art of changing their words. Takes a lot to get your body to lie along.
Once again, remember, especially guys when in doubt.
Actions. Not words.